My First "Girl Crush"…..

Ok……..I'm just gonna put this out there….

I have a huge "girl crush" on Carla Hall.

I think she is the coolest….funniest….

wildest woman ever and I want her for my BFF!

I always look forward to her instagram

videos and watch her on The Chew just

to see what she's gonna wear. She 

cracks me up with her facial expressions 

and humor….and she cooks!

I want to be just like her!

Remember happiness.....

My dear friend is going through a heart breaking family ordeal...

as we are miles from each other I can only comfort

her with emails...phone conversations...and texts...

My hope is that she will remember happiness...

"It is difficult to know what to do

with so much happiness.

With sadness there is something

to rub against...

a wound to tend with lotion and cloth.

When the world falls in around you...

you have pieces to pick up...

something to hold in your hands...

like ticket stubs or change.

But happiness floats.

It doesn't need you to hold it down.

It doesn't need anything.

Happiness lands on the roof

of the next house... singing...

and disappears when it wants to.

You are happy either way.

Even the fact that you once lived

in a peaceful tree house

and now live over a quarry of noise

and dust cannot make you unhappy.

Everything has a life of its own...

it too could wake up filled with possibilities

of coffee cake and ripe peaches...

and love even the floor

which needs to be swept...

the soiled linens and scratched records.

Since there is no place large enough

to contain so much happiness...

you shrug... you raise your hands...

and it flows out of you...

into everything you touch.

You are not responsible.

You take no credit...

as the night sky takes no credit

for the moon... but continues to hold it...

and to share it...

and in that way...

be known."

~ Naomi Shihab Nye
(art card made with deviant scrap nbc love the world digital kit)

My BFF

ya know.....every now and then ......the stars line up just right .......and wonderful things happen. i just reconnected with my best friend during our teen years. as it turns out..........we've both been trying to track each other down over the years with no luck until i happened across her cousin on facebook. SCORE!

after a quick catch up session..... i'm amazed at how alike we've turned out to be.......gardeners, coffee enthusiast, wine lovers, bread bakers, junkers............oh..... i've missed you...... my twin sister from different mothers!
she's in virginia and i'm in south carolina....... but...... if i don't miss my guess....some day we'll hook up for a face to face reunion.... good for a kzillion belly laughs about our past antics.

judy.....judy.....judy..........wow........how great to hear from ya!